WOW! has it really been a whole month since we had Rebekah? Life in our house has never been more exciting, draining, loving, fabulous, the words just keep coming and coming ...
We have been to the doctor a couple time for her check ups...so far everything looks good! We love her pediatrician. He has made me feel at ease since the hospital visits. However, the 2 week check up was so not fun! We saw a practicing doctor in the office and we were not to thrilled with her.
The first thing she says when she walks in..
dr. we don't like: "We like to see our own patients, so we can get to know them."
umm...okay do i need to leave (is what I was thinking)..
me:"well the front desk said he was out all week"
dr: he was here monday and tuesday
me: THEY told me he wasn't here this week.
dr.: well he was here. The appointments don't have to be exactly on the certain days.
me: oookay!
so the appointment continues...
dr: "she has strong muscle tones"
me: I'm thinking cool...
dr. continues: "shes about to roll over, you should do more tummy time."
me: (i'm thinking she's two weeks old but okay) "well she sleeps on her stomach
dr: "OH NO! we don't sleep on our stomach that causes SIDS. Sudden infant death syndrome
me: i know what that is
my mom: all three of mine slept on their stomach
dr: (as her finger is pointed at me) Times have changed!
me: (my eyes get big and I am almost going post pregnancy hormonal Kirchharr on her) WELL....you don't have to stay up with her, sooooo she can sleep on her stomach
in the end...she has gained all of her weight back she is now 8lbs.1oz and grew 1 inc. total 20 inches long!
We and by we I mean ME...have been having a hard time with her feeding schedule. Holy cow my mom was right this is tough! and when she hits a growth spurt! KILL ME NOW, I think...we have yet to hit a consistent schedule because she keeps growing. We are eating about every 1 1/2-2 hours depending on if she falls asleep during said feedings. She is currently going through some reflux issues. We don't know yet if these issues will lead to pyloric stenosis or not, but we are constantly looking for it! if we can make it 7 more weeks we will be in the clear. These reflux issues keep Bekah and Mommy up most of the night and day only sleeping for small increments ( every 30-45 minutes) unless we are in the recliner...she sleeps for hours if we are in there! that habit has to be squashed!
I refuse to give up on nursing, even if it's hard. I feel like a failure when we have to give her a formula supplement. That disappoints me to no ends. I'm not saying formula is bad, but in my mind I refuse to give up just because its inconvenient for me or its hard for me. SLEEP?....who needs it! certainly not this momma! lol:)
Even through all this craziness, we have been blessed with a family who will watch over and spoil her while we rest or if we don't want to get her out in public. She has so much fun visiting her grandparents. All of them spoil her and give her whatever she wants. I know it will only get worse where they are concerned! :) Thanks guys!
Bekah went to church on Sunday for the first time a few weeks ago. We went to Sunday School and then went to hear Poppa preach at Philadelphia Baptist. She was a true baptist and fell asleep during the service! She does so well during church. Especially during Choir Practice. The music just soothes her!
With Brian's schedule, we have had a hard time having quality family time together. We had a photoshoot with Stephanie Ledbetter in Camden. AND OH HOW SWEET those pictures are. Then, this week, Brian has been on days, and the Olympics have been on at night. We do Bekah's nightly routine and lay in bed cheering the USA on! We love watching swimming and gymnastics (well I enjoy gymnastics).
My dad made the comment "being a parents easy right!" Yeah, dad! its a breeze! lol... I knew that life would not be easy and the nights would be long, but you never really KNOW how LONG those nights are...and how NOT EASY it is to take care of a little being until you are actually up all night long. You definitely have to have a strong sense of yourself and a strong mindset to take care of your child.
With all that being said, I LOVE MY DAUGHTER, when she smiles, she lights up the room! Her laugh makes you laugh and giggle (she makes her daddy giggle)!
Until next month, Rebekah is growing strong, and keeps us on our toes! We thank God (even through long nights) that she is in our lives and this is only part of the journey!